Travel

Digital Nomad 101

Choosing to become a digital nomad was a matter of necessity for me. When I decided to travel the world, I did not have a ton of money saved and I did not have passive income coming in. All I knew was that I was outta there! After leaving LA with the little money I saved, and the money I made from getting rid of all my belongings, I knew I had to find a gig that I could do online while I traveled. In full transparency, the conversation with my current client started before I left but I did not write a proposal until two weeks after my trip started. I jumped on that plane with blind faith! My digital nomad journey was very organic but I learned a lot along the way. If you are new to the digital nomad game here are a few tips. 

Pick a location that can help you thrive.

Working and traveling adds another layer to the nomad life. Picking a location that can fulfill all your personal and professional needs is paramount. Yes, you can go anywhere in the world, but does your job require strong wifi 24/7 or can you disappear for a few days and your clients won’t freak out? In some areas, the wifi might be good for regular daily use but can it handle large uploads and downloads? When researching where to visit be very realistic about your necessities. This includes access to consistent power as well. This is where I feel writers have an advantage; they get to check in less and disappear for days while working on projects. Lucky! I work in the social media and content management world so I have to make sure I have decent wifi at all times. 

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Protect your time and make sure your contract reflects your boundaries.  

The whole point of leaving the 9-to-5 world is to not be a slave to your job. All my contracts include the days and times I am willing to work and when I will be unreachable. Be very clear about the lifestyle you want and make sure your clients understand your boundaries. In general, I work four-day weeks between certain hours, and I do not work weekends unless there is an emergency. This is where a great contract comes into play. I am very blessed to have a friend who is a pro at freelance contracts and I pay her to rip it to shreds and put it back together. A good thing to remember is that as you move through different timezones your personal definition of a weekend might change or your working hours might be affected. 

Network before you get on the plane! 

This is one of my biggest professional tips, whether you are a digital nomad or not. Digitally connect with as many people in your field as possible. In this case, connect with other digital nomads and expats in your chosen location (and around the world) before you travel. This is where Facebook Groups comes in really handy. I am almost sure there is an expat FB group for every country on the planet, and if you are lucky there may even be groups just for digital nomads. Logging on and getting tips and tricks before you land can save a ton of headaches. People living and working the way you aspire to will tell you everything you need to know before you jump on the plane. For example, while in Bali a fellow traveler friend asked me to look into art supply stores for her husband. Because I was able to locate resources for them it literally lightened their load. In general, I check into the Girls Love Travel group on FB every time I plan a trip. This group is not specific to digital nomads, but I have met amazing women from around the world and gotten great travel tips. Don’t forget to check blogs as well. So many people have done this before you, so there is no reason to feel lost or uninformed.

Co-living 

My first leap into the nomad world was actually at a co-living space in Nicaragua. Co-living is a type of accommodation for digital nomads or young professionals who prefer a communal living arrangement. Co-living not only helps you save money but introduces you to a community of people who are on similar life paths. In order to curate the residents and guarantee a house filled with like-minded people, I had to apply to stay at my co-living space. When I realized this, I was a little taken aback by the process but upon arrival it all made sense. Digital nomads live and work on the road, so the last thing you want at home is a group of loud party kids whose only mission is to get lit. Co-living spaces range from a hotel-like experience to a homey bed and breakfast feel, and are wired for the fun and work balance. You will get the quiet time you need for work but when you want to socialize you are more than welcomed.  Another feature I really enjoyed about staying at a co-living space was the organized meet-ups. We had “Lunch & Learn” sessions (where different guests taught mini-workshops at lunchtime), round table talks, morning yoga, dinner outings, and the occasional bar flex. My favorite part of staying at the house was all the great people I met. After spending almost three weeks there I can truly say I left with a few friends. My roommate even turned into a travel buddy for a few stops on the journey. And I met up with two other women while traveling in Bali! 

Coworking 

A coworking space is basically communal office spaces for anyone who needs office vibes without big budgets. It has all the amenities (private offices, board rooms, coffee bar, printing station etc.) for you to successfully run your business anywhere in the world. More importantly, very similarly to co-living, coworking spaces offer community. If you are a solo traveler or a social person then finding a community with shared interests is integral to your mental health. Although I have never rented a desk at a coworking space, I have taken advantage of their communal activities such as culture talks, workshops, and poetry slams. So even if you are planning on renting your own house but still want to connect with other digital nomads, check out the coworking spaces in each country you visit. 

Research activities that will take you away from your computer but still stimulate your mind! 

Like I’ve stated before, the whole point of leaving the 9-to-5 world is to not be a slave to your work! When researching locations, pick places that offer activities that pique your interest. Activities that you’ve always wanted to try or skills you want to hone. It’s no secret that Bali is one of my favorite places to visit. It has an amazing digital nomad and expat community. You can surf, hike, offroad, camp, learn about permaculture, take a coffee course, go to workshops, music festivals or poetry slams. The list is endless! It makes work-life balance so easy. Why would you want to chain yourself to your desk when there are so many fun things to do? 

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Pick a date and go!

Up until this moment, you have done a fair amount of research. You have chosen a location, made some connections and you are feeling good. You have done as much as you can to prepare, it’s time to pick a date and GO. If this is your first trip, do not get caught up in over planning because you are nervous. And do not keep pushing back the date while you are waiting on everything to be perfect. As long as you have a solid plan (or even a little loose one), GO. Trust yourself and take the leap. 

Get settled and be flexible. 

Once you have taken this amazing step into digital nomadism, take your time getting settled. The best part of being a nomad is knowing that you are doing slow travel. Find your bearings in your new home. Take time out to find your favorite coffee shops, restaurants, and spas. Go on long walks, meet the locals and feel out the area. There is no rush to get everything perfect right away. You might not want to hear this but things might not turn out the way you think they will. Your accommodations may not be a good fit or you may find a neighborhood you like better. Build flexibility into your trip. When traveling you have to learn how to roll with the punches. 

Get to work! 

Now that you are all settled, find your new routine. Remember you are still working and traveling, so set up a schedule that works for you. Maybe try a four-day workweek as I did or try completing all your work before a certain time so the rest of the day is for relaxing and exploring. The best part of being a digital nomad is that you call the shots! Know your limits and hold yourself accountable. And most importantly, have fun! 



Traveling The World With Only A Carry-on

Traveling with a limited amount of clothing can be challenging at times. For the past 18 months, I have been living out of a carry on and a backpack and have done very little shopping. Sounds ridiculous right? Well, my love for fashion says it absolutely is but my desire for ease of travel says it’s practical.

Before I get into what I carry, here are a few reasons why you should consider lightening your load on your next trip:

  1. No waiting for bags - Airports can be stressful, to say the least. On the list of things to worry about the last thing I want to think about is my luggage. Since I don’t have to wait on a bag, once I clear immigration and after a quick stop at customs, I am out of there. Also, waiting or joining a separate line to check on your bags is none existent as well. This is a serious time and stress savior.

  2. Fewer or no baggage fees - I love saving money! Baggage fees can add up when bouncing from country to country (especially when using budget airlines). I say leave all the hassle behind and skip the checked bags when you can.

  3. Mobility - The easiest way to travel is probably with the double backpack model. A small pack in front and a larger on your back. But I can’t manage all that so I still rock with a rolly carry-on. Either way when bouncing from plane to train and to the bus, the lesser the better. Also, it’s easier to keep an eye on your valuables when you only have two bags.

Ok back to the main reason why you are here. How do I do manage to look cute and travel light? Well, let me tell you!

  • Basics, basics, basics

I believe in the power of basics!. The bulk of my wardrobe is made up of the simplest, most basic clothing I could find. These are the items that are the foundation of my wardrobe. They are solid colors, (usually black, white, grey, and navy blue), classic silhouettes and timeless pieces. And more importantly, they are quality items that can be washed and worn again and again without fear of falling apart. Investing in great basics is essential for long wear life. Not everything will cost a lot but items like a dress shirt or a great little black dress are worth it. You can also pick up great denim at thrift stores and vintage shops. Honestly, I’ve had some of these items for almost 10 years and they are still going strong. Here is a breakdown of my most basic basics:

  1. Denim (Dark & Light)

  2. 2 little black dresses

  3. Plain T-shirts

  4. 1 Camisole

  5. 1 black blouse

  6. 1 versatile dress shirt

  7. A jean jacket

  8. Black shorts, navy blue shorts

  9. Fitted hoodie

I will do a full breakdown of everything in my carry-on in a later post.

  • Versatile clothing

If and when I buy clothes, I make sure it can go with heels, sandals or cute sneakers. If I switch around how it’s tied and accessorized, even the dress I wore to my friend’s super elegant wedding can be worn with tennis shoes. This makes shopping for items take longer but if you are spending wisely you will get a longer life out of them. This also helps with saving the planet by not filling up landfills with clothing that you only wear a few times then never want to touch again.

  • Can it be layered?

There is no rhyme or reason to how I travel, so one of the main things I asked myself when I started deciding what to leave and what to carry was can I also wear this in the cold? Obviously, I am not talking blizzard temps but if I need to go to a chilly city and then a warm country, I ask myself, “Can most of my clothing work?” Crazy right? This is where a great denim jacket, jeans and at least one hoodie comes in handy. When I was in Europe, I layered all those pieces with my basic shirts or dresses. Admittedly I did buy one sweater but hey I didn’t say this carryon thing is foolproof. In Bali, I stripped down and wore the layers separately. My jacket and hoodie did come in handy on bike rides and during chilly jungle nights though.

  • Scarves

Light scarves save lives. I have four now. Lol I know that doesn’t make sense but I picked up three in Bali that I can’t part with, so judge me if you want. They are great to layer with, they become blankets on planes and mats or sarongs on the beach. Scarves can dress up a simple outfit, become a dress or top when needed and can be used for covering up in modest countries! Even though my scarves are not solid colors or simple, when purchasing them I still asked myself, “How versatile is this pattern?” If I wouldn’t wear it often or the pattern and colors were too crazy for my wardrobe then it was an instant no. But because my the foundation of my clothing is built on neutrals and basics, I get to have way more fun with the designs of the scarves. So will I part with my four scarves? Not any time soon.

  • Classic shoes

Currently, I own one pair of white leather tennis shoes, black sneakers, gold heels, nude sandals, black sandals, and one pair of flip-flops. With the exception of the sneakers (which I wear for outdoor activities and exercise) and the flip-flops, I use the same philosophy here as I do with clothing. Is this shoe versatile? All of my shoes are void of crazy colors or a dated design. You can probably tell by now I am not into trend shopping and fast fashion. Your shoes should also be comfortable and reliable. So feel free to invest a little more here as well. My gold heels were over $100 but I have worn them to everything from a wedding to partying my butt off for 6 hrs at a party.

A quick note about flip-flops: always pack a pair. They go from house slippers to beachwear to shower shoes at hostels real quick. One of the best cheap buys you can make. Trust me, I’ve forgotten my flip-flops while doing weekend trips and it’s a hassle trying to figure out how to use a shared hostel shower when you only have tennis shoes and a prayer that you don’t get foot fungus. Just saying.

  • Smart accessories

My bags are solid classic pieces and my jewelry is simple and mostly gold. That said, this is where you can have a little more fun. If you do have a little extra space for those funky earrings and bracelets, by all means, throw them in there. But seeing that I also packed a first aid kit, a mini flashlight, a Polaroid camera, a few other gadgets and emergency medication for everything from diarrhea to malaria, I had to leave those cute earrings behind. Instead, I went for my favorite pieces, which so happen to be made by my fabulous designer friend bychari.com.

Fun fact, each of my bags was purchased in a different country. I call this smart souvenir shopping. And this is something you can employ too, try to buy functional souvenirs, not tchotchkes! Here’s the rundown of my bags and where they are from:

  1. 1 brown leather saddle bag - London, England

  2. 1 black clutch- Brussels, Belgium

  3. Foldable Duffle Bag- Brussels, Belgium

  4. 1 hunter green leather wallet- Granada, Nicaragua

  5. Foldable shopping totes- Ubud, Bali

Ok so you’ve read this post and started packing but after looking over your things, you still have too much stuff. Here is how you can cut back even more.

  • Forget about those just in case items

It took me a long time to learn this one and I am still not a pro at it. Even though I an a longterm traveler with no home base I still take short trips during a long stay. And even with a simplified wardrobe, I can still find myself over packing for a short trip. I get caught up in the what ifs. What if I meet my future husband and I need to have the perfect look? What if I randomly end up dirt biking or hiking through the jungle? What if I get invited to something super fancy? What if, what if, what if…. If you are anything like me you can drive yourself crazy running through different clothing scenarios. Let me be the first to say that magical date or that off the charts random jungle excursion has not happened and even if they did I am sure I would’ve survived with what I packed in my overnight bag. Also, remember if all else fails and you really do need something that you didn’t pack, nine times out of 10, you will be able to purchase it.

  • Consider the length of your trip

I travel for months on end, so even if I can justify squeezing in an extra pair of jeans (many minimalist packers are probably cringing at that statement) do you really need them for a short vacation? Probably not. Take a serious look at your agenda and think about what you really need and what makes sense for the length of the trip. Don’t pack for a month if you are leaving for 4 days. You are just bringing stress on yourself.

  • Wear your heavy/bulky pieces

If you are headed into colder climates and need to pack jackets, boots and/or jeans, wear them on the plane. This will free up tons of space in your carry-on. I always wear my sneakers, hoodie, scarf, and jacket on the plane. The worst that can happen is I have to strip down if I get too warm.

After all of that, you better be able to zip up that carry-on.

One last note:

  • Laundry

For all those on Instagram wondering what I do about laundry, I do laundry about twice a month. I wash my undies after every use (as, according to my aunty, a good country girl should, lol) so I always have fresh pairs. When traveling, where I do laundry is determined by the location. Many hostels/co-living spaces and hotels offer laundry services. Where hotels might be a bit expensive, hostels usually offer very affordable rates. If in house laundry is not an option or is too expensive, I visit local laundromats and wash my clothes myself or pay for someone else to wash for me. One of the best things about central America and Bali is the cheap laundry services. They washed, dried, and folded my clothes to perfection. But I did also lose my fave shirt this way so be careful. Count your clothes at drop off and at pick up.

Traveling out of a carry-on is really a learning experience. It shows you what you really need, it teaches you to be creative and it’s humbling. If you haven’t tried it yet, I would definitely recommend downsizing. You will feel lighter mentally and physically.

Do you have any questions that I did not address? Hit me up in the comment section below.

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6 Ways I Downsized My Life To The Travel World

from the archives

The decision to downsize my life and set off to travel the world was an easy one. I have no children, no significant other and no major commitments to keep me in one place. So with no true anchors to think of I only needed to get rid of all my stuff. If you are looking to do the same thing here are a few ways I got the job done:

  1. Part Ways:

    The first and most important thing you have to do when downsizing is deciding what you want to keep. For me this was easy. I knew I was leaving my apartment with one carry-on suitcase and a backpack.That was it. OK maybe it wasn’t that easy. What do you do when you have 5 favorite dresses but you only have space for 1? And it better be a versatile one. And what if I want to trade out clothes after a few months? Do I send a box to my mom’s or a friend’s?After much contemplation I decided that very few items needed to be kept in storage (meaning mom’s or a friend’s); only winter clothes, a few sentimental things (journals, photos, etc.) and important documents. Everything else will have to find a new home.

  2. Sell furniture in a forum you trust.

    Let’s face it, selling furniture/household items was not fun. Between posting, reposting, chasing down leads and waiting for people who never showed up, the process can make any sane person just want to open a window and throw everything outside like it was an ex-lover’s favorite things.

    Like that wasn’t enough stress, as a single woman and living alone, having random people show up to my house was a huge safety concern. Because of this I decided to only use forums I was familiar with. Groups on Facebook I’ve chatted in before, my own FB page and FB’s marketplace were my go to’s. Facebook was my go to for selling everything. Being able to check a person’s profile or knowing that we have common friends eased many of my fears.

    To take precautions further, I only gave away my building address (not apt #) to most people and met them downstairs if they purchased Items that were easy for me to carry. When I sold my large farm table to a young man, I asked a friend to hang out with me when the purchaser wanted to come by. I also tried my best to schedule meetings in the mornings before work or the early evenings.

    Being safe while inviting strangers into your home should be your number one priority. Don’t let desperation cause you to put yourself at risk.

  3. Donate towels, sheets, pillows and blankets to an animal shelter.

    This was a daunting one for me. What in the world do I with my old towels, sheets, blankets and pillows. Most things I have I knew I could sell but who the heck wants my old dingy towels? Thank God for Google! Not knowing what to do I looked up ways to recycle these items. Out of all the ways to reuse these items, donating them to an animal shelter made the most sense. Animal shelters use these items for animal bedding, to dry them after cleaning and other necessities. I’ve never been a pet person but definitely brings me comfort to know that my old blankets can help provide a comfy home to animals in need.

  4. Sell, Trade, Pass Down & Donate Used Clothing

    From what I’ve read donating used clothing to thrift stores can be tricky. Most clothes you donate never make it to the sales floor. So in order to minimize the chances of my clothes ending up in the landfill anyways I tried these options first.

    Sell/Trade: Crossroads Trading Company is one of my favorite thrift stores in LA. They do an amazing job of curating items people will actually buy again. Knowing that I buy most of my items directly from designer showrooms, I knew heading here first would be a good bet. Better yet, with the money I made from the sale, I bought my carry-on and backpack for the trip. Can you say win-win?!

    Pass Down: During this process I totally forgot that I had a little sister who loves fashion as much as me and wears the same size, but while rattling off my list of to-dos she quickly reminded me fi ship some of di clothes dem. PERF!

    Donate: Most of my clothing and shoes (and some household items) went to the Good Shepherd Center for Women and Children.

  5. Sell Books To A Used Bookstore

    Since living in DTLA, I have completely fallen in love with the Last Bookstore. Growing up I loooved bookstores but I’ve never been in a used bookstore, I thought they were just fun mystery locations in fantasy films. The Last Bookstore is everything in a mystery movie come to life and then some. It married my love for books with an adventure. So when looking for a place to give my favorite reads a second life, I knew exactly where to go. What you get for the books isn’t much but it's a lot better than nothing.

  6. Give It Away for Free

    When all else fails list your stuff for free. When I was down to the wire and less than 24 hours away from jumping on a plane, I put up a sign in my apartment lobby and listed all the items I had left for free. At that point just the mere fact that someone was willing to come and physically move things that I no longer had the energy to haggle with people for was enough for me. I was beat!

I wish I could say I made it through this whole process with minimal waste but to my dismay, I think a fair amount of items still ended up in the trash. I really felt I failed the whole mission of minimal waste because of it but I can say I gave it a hell of an effort.

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If you enjoyed these tips and have any of your own to share, let me know in the comment section.

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My Solo Female Travel Journey: Day 1

from the archives

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Waiting for the shower to warm up only to realize, “baby that shower never getting warm”, coupled with the imagery of me slathering on a shiny layer of sunscreen and spritzing on bug spray is what I would call the symbolic moments marking my new life as a nomad. To think that just a couple of days ago I was walking the grimy streets of DTLA plotting my exit and now I am here in Nicaragua plotting my journey.

A journey not of self discovery but more like a reunion. I’ve always had a strong sense of self, who I am, why I’m here and where I’m going but somewhere along the way to big dreams and career goals, the little voice that was leading me became softer and softer. After a series of jarring situations from being in the hospital to random people coming to me and telling me that the universe wants me to know that I am off my path, I felt like my higher self was doing everything she could to hang out with me again. Like a baby in distress screaming to get it’s mother’s attention, she wailed. Everything became uncomfortable. I needed to do something. I needed to strip away everything that was a distraction and get back to me. When I finally decided to leave, the call to travel was so compelling that I became afraid that if I stayed my true self would be lost forever. It was time to bet on me and be willing to lose it all.

When I finally decided to leave, the call to travel was so compelling that I became afraid that if I stayed my true self would be lost forever.Tweet: The call to travel was so compelling that I became afraid that if I stayed my true self would be lost forever.

Walking through the streets of San Juan Del Sur looking for a local breakfast spot, I was very shocked at the amount of hipster looking shops and restaurants that speckled this tiny town. In some ways I felt like this was just a beachy version of a trendy LA neighborhood, just a little cheaper. I had no expectations of this small fishing community but I never would have envisioned this; trendy bikini shops, streets lined with loud four wheelers and tons of pubs. For a moment I felt weirded out because it felt too familiar. In some ways when thinking about a trip to a place I’ve never been, I had a Jane Goodall vision of myself trekking through the bush lol. But duh Donalee you picked the town where digital nomads call a base, what did you expect?!

With hunger knocking at my gut’s door I gave up my search for local food and picked a Hawaiian spot to chow down. Yep, you read right: HAWAIIAN. Since it’s only day one and knowing that I would have plenty of time to find my spots, I didn’t let the disappointment get to me. Even though it wasn’t what I was looking for, it def hit the spot and Kenny, the owner, was a great local insider to talk to. He has been in San Juan Del Sur for 10 years and even though it has changed a lot from a simple fishing village to a tourist hot spot, he still thinks it's a great base for any Nica traveler. And even though I’ve only been here for a day I agreed. He gave me a few tips before sending me on my way with my leftovers wrapped in foil.

Wrap & Roll - Crispy fried chicken mixed plate $4.00

Wrap & Roll - Crispy fried chicken mixed plate $4.00

As I walked through the town center I couldn’t help but hear patois! This is the second time I’ve bumped into a patois (garifuna) speaking Nicaraguan and I couldn’t help butting into his conversation and introducing myself. In a country where I know no one, these small moments help me feel at ease. I may never see this man again (fun fact I def did lol and he gave me the biggest hug!) but in this moment of familiarity all the strangeness of travel subsided and we were connected.

This is why I started this travel journey.

Oh but what would life be without contrast? For every moment of familiarity, there were times of utter confusion. At first when people asked if I know Spanish I would answer, “Enough not to be scared.” All that confidence went out the window less than an hour after my patois connection when I needed to buy eggs at the market. I was confused, the market lady was frustrated, we repeated each other hoping to make the next understand. In the end she just took my dollar and flashed me off. Sigh. Yep my Spanish sucks.

Towards the end of the night my housemates and I went out for sushi. Yep. SUSHI. Needless to say I did not partake, at this point I just wanted street meat but I wanted to hang out and possibly make friends. Although, I became fast friends with one of the guys (we went for a walk in town before the meetup and we went for beers and chatted for a good bit), I couldn’t help but feel like a fish out of water. Most of the folks residing at the co-living space for digital nomads (people who work remotely) had a few weeks of friendship established by the time I got there. So for the majority of dinner I sat in silence and just took in the scene.

Still super grateful for being there, I also felt intimidated. Here are folks that are fully established in their respective fields, and here I am barely knowing where to begin. And if the feeling of not fitting in wasn’t enough torture, the question I got asked after my name was, “So what do you do?” I effin hate that question. I left a world where that was the only question that was asked at social gatherings and if you didn’t do something that could help the inquirer, you were immediately of no value to them. I was left wondering does anyone (other than the young man I hung out with earlier) actually want to know who I am, why I’m here?

Deciding to not give in to discomfort, I took a deep breath, sipped my $1.36 Toña beer and listened. I’m happy to report that after a couple of beers and bar hopping, I was able to break the ice with my housemates. A couple of them also assured me that I will have this digital nomad lifestyle figured out in no time.

As I sit by the pool reliving these moments I have no beautifully crafted philosophical quote to end this post. But I can say that even with the uncertainty of this journey I feel at peace.

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Have you ever done long-term travel? Share some of your first experiences in the comment section below.